While sitting at dinner one night my 10 year oldnephew told a story about how him and his friend were chasing their dog. He laughed and laughed and said the more we chased her the more she ran. And every now and then she would stop and make us think she was gonna let us catch her....and theeeennnn she would take off again. I was sooooo frustrated but she kept trickin US!!! I got tired and said you make me sick! I was tired and sweaty so I just turned around and started walking in the house. The dog ran and jumped on me! I said Baby if you chase a dog she will run. If you want her to play with you, you gotta call her and then just let her come to you.

LIGHTBULB

Moral of the Story ladies. I'm a lot of old school splashed with a little new school when it comes to dating. If I see a guy I'm interested in I'll toss the bait. I may even give my number if I know he wants it but he's a bit shy and hasn't asked. Men don't like rejection (women don't either) but men are worse. So I will give him the number. He then gives me his. Women: If you did take a risk and you promted the number exchange. Let him call you! ENOUGH! If he doesn't bite. Keep it moving. Never say another word about the number (why aren't you calling me) Men typically don't like to crush our feelings.

Trust he didn't loose it, if he did he'll ask you. Keep your dignity! Now the SLIGHT difference between a man and the story above. Is he will stop long enough to get from you whatever your willing to give, but he will get up and take off running again! If he wants you let him come get you. Men like a challenge don't just throw yourself out there. That's not Sexy, Attractive, or Appealing, but he will deal with you just not on the level We often are looking for...This is the kind of situation you don't want. It brings headaches, heartaches, stomachaches and your tears. Stay clear of this type of relationship, (it's toxic). Pay attention to what your doing because your ACTIONS could have caused it to switch gears. And you downgraded yourself.