Regrets
♥♥♥ I often hear things like, "never regret anything, cause at one point, it is what you wanted." or ''life is too precious to have regrets." And so on. These type of sayings are everywhere. And we think, yeah, that is so true. I shouldn't regret things. And we feel a little more secure...... for a while.

I don't believe we shouldn't have regrets. While the very ''thing'' we are regretting, may, infact have been what we wanted at the time, does not mean what we wanted was right for us. To be human is to err. I am sure you have heard that saying. To me, saying we shouldn't have regrets, is like saying, don't ever think you were wrong.

If a man rapes and kills a woman, should he not regret it? It's ok, cause he wanted it? But it's not the same, right? Not the same as getting drunk last night, and making out with that guy, oh what's his name. No, it is not the same thing. Different subjects. But all in all, a regret.

It's all in how you deal with regret. Now, if you linger, and hold on to it, yeah, we got a problem there. But, regretting something, learning from it, and moving on, that is the proper way to regret. Maybe the situation will arise again. And you will remember how you felt. You will feel remorse, and remember the lesson learned. Your regret just may save you from making the mistake again.

So I say, life is too short, NOT to regret. Just do it wisely. ♥♥♥