Sadly, most men never see the signs their woman is leaving them.......
One day you're living the good life. You own a home together, your car is paid for and everything seems like it should be going the way it should.
Then........one day you come home a little drunk from the strip club and .........
*poof* shes gone........
Could this have been avoided?
Not likely. Once a woman has her mind made up to leave, you'd have better luck trying to convince Mother Teresa to star in a three way porno with a midget and a donkey than getting your woman to change her mind.
Women don't generally leave overnight. The woman leaving process usually covers a span of 6 months and the man is completely oblivious to the fact shes leaving until the day he opens the door and the house is empty.
Learning to see the signs takes understanding the difference between the male and female thought process:
The male brain is very simple and easy to read. Ask any man what another man is thinking and he can tell you.
The Male Brain:
On the other hand, the female brain is extremely complex. Ask any Woman what another woman is thinking and she will tell you....." I have *NO* idea.....That bitch is crazy"
The Female Brain:
Sign number 1 O.I.D
The first sign shes leaving is always the hardest to spot. This is where she has come up with some emotional argument in the relationship that you cant win. There's no reason or logic involved in her argument, its all about how she "feels" about something.
As a woman holds on more and more to her emotional argument, her body starts to under go many changes over the next six months. The first thing that happens is her body begins to produce a very toxic hormone called O.I.D. (Ovarian Induced Drama) which begins to destroy or block the reasoning part of the brain.
If untreated in the very beginning, OID will eventually destroy any hope of her taking accountability and turn her heart into stone.
The cure for OID: Never argue with a woman
Sign Number 2 support system
Six months prior to leaving a relationship, a woman can tell you the exact reasons why all the single women she knows are not in a relationship. Once OID sets in, these same 'once dysfunctional' women suddenly all become her new support system.
Her support system thrives off the Drama she feeds them, and she thrives from the attention they give her.
If your woman is suddenly exploding in anger over shit that happened 2 years ago, an hour before shes going to meet her friends...You are unknowingly going to be the topic of conversation for the evening.
By the time a man realizes his woman is unhappy in the relationship, all of her friends , family, co-workers, Walmart employees and even complete strangers in Jamaica all knew three months prior.
How to battle her support system: Ignore her
Sign Number 3 Relationship counseling
This is a woman's last ditch effort to sell her *Epic Lifetime Story of Emotional Abuse* .
How to win in relationship counseling: STFU and the let councilor deal with her. They are professionally trained to combat ovarian nonsense.
Relationship Counseling will also teach as a man how to spot the signs early on and what to do in the likely event it happens again...
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