Marriage is a long time. It is a contract, a commitment, an understanding, a partnership of sorts. Egos have to to be put aside in order for the union or merger to be a success. Unfortunately, statistically speaking, it is subject to fail. It's a coinflip for survival. That doesn't seem so bad when determining who goes first, but in mariage, those numbers are not a good reason to pull the shotgun away from your mouth! Marriage, and this economy has people ready to jump out the window like Ron Brownz! "Why get married then", you say?

I never told you to get married, I just explained to you what marriage is!The biggest question is, "why do people cheat, and are in relationships" Why tell a person you love them, only to have sex with another person later that day. As springtime approaches, and single mothers income tax returns run out, I can't help but notice a disturbing trend today. TOO MANY LOVE SONGS ON THE RADIO! Apparently the most requested songs get played. Ne-Yo, Dream, J.Holiday, Plies, Jamie Foxx, basically anything that involves women being "ride or die chicks", "independent women", or freaky sex havers.

Friends, these are the signs of extremely lonely people! Ask yourself a question. Who would request these types of song day in and day out? Yes, you guessed right. Gay guys who act like girls, and lonely females!Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? I compared women to children in the "turn an inch into a mile" sense. The same thing can be applied to men, BECAUSE THEY CAN, AND YOU AIN'T GONNA DO SHHHHIIIIIIITTTTTT.............YOU AIN'T GONNA DO SSHHHHHIIIIITTTTTTT! If a man goes out, comes in at 5 in the morning, you let it ride..........Oh he's going bonkers with it! That's how men are. Women who cheat do it because the man is either: soft, expendable, has no choice but to take it, homeless, or just a sorry dude. Real men don't get cheated on, sorry. If you are a man who was cheated on, you weren't a man when it happened. If you are single........you are lonely.

If you're in a relationship, but wanna see other people.......you are selfish. Why are you in a relationship if you can't take it seriously? I'm about to blow this thing wide open, and I apologize to the many fellas who may be offended!- Single men are single because they either just got out of a relationship, or are broke. Any man with money or has somewhat of a sucessful polish is a target! You will be hounded relentlessy, and women will try to be with you non-stop. Your ego will grow each time some lying freak tells you she misses you or some other freaky stuff I will not type. Then you allow yourself to fall for her clutches. Because you have some polish, everyone is still trying to get at you, and since your ego is out of control.........you just keep going.........then you get laid off! Suddenly, she says "needs time to find herself, and concentrate on school", so you single again!- You out at a bar or club, and you meet a chick who is lonely errr single.

You ain't got shit.......but you look good........and she got her own whip, place, and a great job.........ladies, do I really need to continue? LOL! Well, her money turns into y'all money, and you out trickin her money on chicks you weren't able to pull 6 months ago! C'mone man! I'm just saying!STOP WASTING EACH OTHER'S TIME! I get that there are lonely people in the world, but any person who cheats on you doesn't respect you, and respect and love go hand in hand. You give respect to your woman by respecting her concerns or issues no matter how fucking stupid it sounds to you at the time. You respect your man by not undermining him, or driving him away. He doesn't have to cheat to be driven away.

You need communication, so there isn't any funny business. Miscommunication plays a big part in infidelity. The ultimate reason for cheating unfortunately is people just want their cake, and to smash it too. Look, if getting it in is your thing, do you. Don't be selfish, and make someone yours because you don't want no one else to have them, or you're an insecusre loser! Love yours! Take care of yours, and communicate! Or you can keep going to the bar, getting with said person, sleep with them, they eat up your food, then call they baby mama, or daddy to come pick them up from your house! If that's being single, you can have it!!!!