Ever meet a guy and wonder if he's all about you or if he's just trying to "get some"? Most of the time when you find your "physical preference", you really want to believe that the person is being sincere; you’re more willing to accept BS from them, but then you find yourself getting played. Guys always reveal themselves, even in the 1st encounter, and there are 3 things you should always pay attention to: His approach, his body language, and his conversation.The first one is really simple…

His approach. If the first thing that comes out of his mouth is something sexual, i.e "damn ma, you sexy as hell, what's your name?", then he’s all about gettin’ in your britches, and you should turn away quickly. If he sends his friend over to get your attention he can’t be serious about you. No man should ever do that, he should get his own ass up. Now I gotta say this, most men won't approach a woman in packs and will do this for that reason, but I'm tellin' you, the BEST thing a man can do is approach a women when she's surrounded by lots of friends; why? Because if her friends like him, he's almost sure to win her over, lol.

If he approaches you with a pick up line or something that sounds like it was rehearsed in the bathroom, then he’s all about the booty. A man who is sincere would not approach you with a line that can randomly pertain to anybody. Now don’t get me wrong, some guys are just silly and do it for that very reason… Understandable, but where it goes from there depends on the next two things.The next one is not so simple, only because some women love to run their mouths, so they don’t quite pay attention to his body language… Plus they love flattery, and a lot of the body language plays right into that. Like when he looks you up and down…

That can be very flattering to a woman, and that’s fine, but if he is CONSTANTLY looking you up and down, it’s not hard to tell what he’s thinking about. And if you STILL find it flattering, then you deserve what you got coming. Licking his lips or showing his tongue is sign of a sleeze. If he’s not making eye contact or he’s constantly looking around, he’s not that interested in you or anything you have to say, but he sticks around because he wants to "get some". If he pauses in the middle of a sentence to think, he’s holding back information, as to not incriminate himself. If he touches his face or scratches his head, he’s either lying or unsure of himself. If he is constantly trying to touch you anywhere AT ALL…

Doesn’t matter if its your hands, arms, or whatever, his intentions are purely sexual. If he is really serious about getting to know you, he wouldn’t risk running you off by being too touchy-feely. It’s a technique to see just how far you’ll let him go… Which he hopes will lead to the bedroom. If he is dangling his keys, fiddling with his jewelry, or constantly adjusting his clothes, it is a sure sign of a selfish man. If he's into you or your conversation, why would he be fiddling with anything? Cause he's bored and not interested maybe? People who touch themselves alot is usually a sign that a person is possesive and are full of themselves. Think of a guy who curesses his face or rubs his hair when you tell him how good he looks, or the kind who likes to grab his crouch or flex... He's saying "me, me, me".Conversation is also an easy one to pick up but often ignored by the female species.

If he is constantly giving you compliments on your physical attributes, or compliments the same thing more than once, he’s telling you he wants to have sex. If the conversation leads to sex… Well, isn’t it obvious? Sex should never be a subject during the meeting stage. If he’s going on and on about himself he’s not concerned about you, he’s just trying to sell himself so he can get some. If you are constantly leading the conversation, he’s not that interested in you. Why is he still standing there, you ask? He’s waiting for you to shut up so he can ask you for your phone number and try and get some. Even if he is generally quiet he'll lead at some points if he's interested enough. If he asks you about ex-boyfriends, exhusbands, or brings up his ex-girlfriends, he’s playing the sympathy card. It’s the oldest trick in the book, sympathy ALWAYS wins with females and has an almost guaranteed hit rate.

The only thing that would ruin it for him is if he says something stupid. There is no reason to bring up ex’s when you first meet someone because it’s supposed to be about you and him. Anything else is just a distraction from the real agenda.A little off the subject but also something you might look for: some men who wear a lot of exceedingly flashy or "busy" clothing, for example, coats with "Gucci" symbols ALL over it or name brands that pop out at you excessively, multiple colors or loud colors, large jewelry, etc, etc, in most cases these men are attention hores, which is almost a sure sign of a person who's just out to get his. Again, it screams "me, me, me". Style is a tricky subject and is often misinterpreted so you have to be careful not to judge someone on style alone...

But the choice in style says a lot about a person.Whether or not a man is serious or is just trying to get into your pants is not limited to the things discussed here and at any time, it is possible to misinterpret these things as well, but let me make one thing clear… MEN ARE NOT COMPLICATED!! You may think so, but all you’d have to do is pay attention to them. You’d be amazed at just how much bullcrap you’ll let slip past you when you’re really attracted to someone but let some ol’ scrub lookin’ dude step to you like that and you’ll notice every bit of BS comin’ out of him. If you shove some s*** into a jewel glass case, does that make it anymore valuable than plain s***?

That’s my 2 cents…