So, there's this blog entry in Xanga which I couldn't help but repost. I couldn't have said it better and I couldn't have asked for a better list.Five Biblical qualities that attract a man to a woman1. SimilarityWhat do you have in common! It makes me sad to see people with someoneknowing that they have nothing in common with them, content with thefact their relationship will not blossom into anything.2. SexualityWhat man wants a woman that doesn't attract him sexually? I know what yourthinking: Christians aren't supposed to think about each other thatway. But come on - that man doesn't want to sleep with your intellect! (after you're married) He wants to be attracted to you physically as well as mentally/emotionally!3. ServanthoodThis is where you are interested in meeting HIS needs. This doesn't meanwaiting on him hand and foot, but just be interested in his well-being.4. SpiritualityThis is a priceless jewel to have in your attraction. When a man isattracted to your spirituality, that means he has to dig deep to TRULYknow who you are and what makes you do the things you do. For him tosee the God in you, that's a great attraction. A woman's heart should be so lost in God that he will have to know God to find her.5. StatusWhat guy wants a woman that everyone else can have? You need to have astatus about you. It's nothing that you have to personally check in the mirror though. This is natural. This man wants to look at you and know that you are worth getting to know and calling you his own. 6. SubmissionI know this is a stage where most women don't see eye-to-eye, but I haveto say that the idea of submission isn't all that bad. I see submissionas having this guy know that he is in control. Not saying that you haveto be walked all over. My pastor once told all the single women in ourchurch this one little nugget that I have never forgotten.: Don't ever let a man leave your presence feeling like less of a man! I think this is a great way to live. I think you dishonor a man when you feel as if you cannot submit to him and his vision. Because if his vision is big enough, it should have enough room to fit yours in it. Bottom line: Don't settle!Remember: What you compromise to get, you will ultimately lose!
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